1950 – 2026

Life & Journey

Seventy-five years – an apprenticeship at seventeen, a boat at twenty-eight, a shop of his own, and the family he counted as his greatest work.

Early life

Born into a Chinese family in Saigon, Vietnam, on November 11, 1950, Tommy was the youngest son of the eleven children of 鄭九公 and 賴好. His family sometimes had to conceal their Chinese identity amid war and political upheaval. Tommy served in the army and lived through violent resistance in his younger years. At seventeen, he began learning the printing trade while helping his brother-in-law run a printing business.

A studio portrait of Tommy's father, 鄭九公.
鄭九公His father
A studio portrait of Tommy's mother, 賴好.
賴好His mother
A studio portrait of Tommy as a baby, in a patterned shirt.
TommyAs a baby
A studio portrait of Tommy as a young boy in a white collared shirt.
TommyAs a boy

Vietnam · Malaysia · Canada

The Journey to Canada

This is the story his community shares – hundreds of families in Calgary carry a crossing like this one. This crossing was his.

In 1979, Tommy led the building of, and captained, a two-level steel boat that carried approximately 300 people from Vietnam to Malaysia in search of freedom and a future.

He organized a team, raised money, built a motorized two-level steel boat and assembled people with the skills needed for the crossing, including protectors and a mechanic.

The crossing took about a week. When the propeller failed at sea, the mechanic dived beneath the boat and remained underwater so long that Tommy feared he had drowned and that everyone aboard would die. The motor finally started again. A mother and her one-week-old baby died during the journey.

After reaching Malaysia, the boat was sunk as a condition of the passengers being accepted as refugees. They lived in a refugee camp for approximately six months while applying for resettlement in a Western country, before Tommy began a new life in Canada in 1979.

For those who notice

Tommy and Phuong

This film was left here as a quiet thank-you for looking closely. Two more are hidden elsewhere in the memorial.

The family that grew from it

Tommy 鄭志強 · 杜蕙芳 Phuong

His children: Lily Trinh, Shirley Trinh, Kelly Trinh, Johnson Trinh

His grandchildren: Kinley, Nicholas, Mia, Kingston, Hailey

After arriving in Canada, he put his printing experience to work and built the close-knit family and community life for which he is remembered.

Family

Tommy is lovingly remembered by his wife, Phuong; his daughters, Lily Trinh, Shirley Trinh, Kelly Trinh; his sons-in-law, Dicky Lin, Jason Chang, Ernesto Ascura; and his grandchildren, Kinley, Nicholas, Mia, Kingston, Hailey. He was predeceased by his beloved son, Johnson Trinh.

He is also remembered by three older sisters, in Canada, Vietnam and China, and by nieces and nephews around the world.

Family members standing together beside a traditional boat.
Together, beside the boat.

Beyond work

Tommy loved the natural world: mountains and rivers, lakes and waterfalls, and the open horizon of the ocean. Road trips gave him a way to explore those places.

He was equally drawn to what came next. Innovations, gadgets, technology, graphic-design programs and artificial intelligence all held his attention. His curiosity remained part of him throughout his life.

Tommy and Phuong together by a mountain lake.
Together by the water, mountains behind.

He left us in Calgary on July 18, 2026, at the age of 75. We miss him every day. 音容宛在。